u/alberoTranquillo

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Suggestions for a Portugese friend trying to learn English in Exeter?

Hi, I'm currently hosting a Portugese guy (40M) as part of his months long English language course. He's doing it as English skills have become more and more of a nessecity for his job (real estate and development) when he goes back to Portugal.

He's due to be leaving my accomdation soon and onto somewhere else. Only because I could only comit a few weeks, otherwise I'd keep him here. Practicing his English at dinner time is a big part of his experience, on top of what he learns in his daily classes.

He does try to get out and about but it's difficult as his English is basic (maybe A1 level at best). At dinner with me we can stop least go slow and I can help him.

Does anybody have any advice please? Are there any portugese clubs or anything like that? The other students on his course are all Arab and Chinese which means he cant compare notes with somebody in his own native language. I will be meeting him for coffee occasionally to continue helping. I'd just love to be able to give him some suggestions to enrich his tome in wonderful England. Thank you.

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u/alberoTranquillo — 6 hours ago
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Any decent comedy nights on coming up soon?

I'd really like to check out some comedy clubs or something. Even if it's an open mic night for comics. I'm only finding old stuff or larger acts on google - would like to see some more amateur type stuff. Thanks.

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u/alberoTranquillo — 3 days ago

Classic case of I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable. She works in a plant shop. I went in there, really liked the way she carried herself and I'm attracted. We chatted briefly but nothing flirty or whatever. I did make her laugh though. I want to go back and ask her out. Can I go back, be straight forward and honest and ask her for a lunch date? I'm not scared of rejection but want the best chances.

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u/alberoTranquillo — 15 days ago

Hi there,

I'm 30M... I've made my mistakes in life and learned from them. Trouble is I often doubt myself and perhaps overthink everything.

I don't do dating apps. There is a girl who works in the local house plant shop. Something about her I just really liked and have thought about her since then a lot. She was well put together, I liked the way she talked and carried herself, good at her job and I liked that she was doing something she was passionate about. Not to mention I think she's very pretty.

I really want to take my chance and go back and ask her out. It's fine if she says no, I've been rejected before and know it's not the end of the world.

Thing is I don't feel like I'm at my absolute best right now...

I do have a good job, just bought a house, have a licence (no car as it totally died and I don't need one now I live in the city and WFH)... but I spent the last 6 months before now in abit of a rut; before buying my house I stayed with family for 6 months, quit an old job I hated for 6 years which was huge for me as I thought I could never leave, then had an injury which kept me out of the gym for 7 months now im abit out of shape. I was a fair bit bigger and stronger even 6 months ago... still got abit of muscle but got the fat match (on on my stomach mainly)... I have these thoughts "if I wait X months and lose the weight and get fit again maybe she'll like me more instead of approaching her as a bum"...

Should I just go for it? I know there's not always gunna be a perfect time. As for the rest, I've had a lot of changes over the last few years; a big breakup which made me realise that there's no point in a relationship for me unless it's intentional from the start, I used to hang around alot of what most would call 'bad people' but don't anymore, used to complain a lot but no I'm grateful.. . lots of things that means I still feel like I'm discovering my life ahead.

More of a rant really, would appreciate any thoughts please. Thank you.

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u/alberoTranquillo — 16 days ago

Hi. I know nothing about cards, I bought a Destined Rivals booster bundle to scratch an itch and pulled this. I'd now like to sell it as I'm raising funds after buying a house and need everything I can get!

It's hard to see the crease in the pics, but where you can see bits of it, imagine the same thing across the whole width of the card. It also doesn't lie perfectly flat.

Any help much appreciated. Thank you.

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u/alberoTranquillo — 16 days ago