ENFPs. A Rant.
A recent post about male ENFP’s compelled me to make this post.
I think that all NF types are on this planet to help heal it. Each in our own specific ways.
As ENFP’s, I believe it is on us to be the ones to bring human connection back to the forefront. The ability to connect with literally almost anybody, and the capacity to hold conflicting views simultaneously makes us the key to bridging the gap.
When we are living in love, when our life is going well, our capacity to spread that love increases tenfold. It’s why we’re here.
It’s the reason so many of us find it difficult to stay static in my opinion. Because we’re not only supposed to stay in one situation and build that one out. We are supposed to continuously motivate and spread love that’s why we’re known as the campaigners. We are the literal cheerleaders of the world. what I’ve noticed that’s crazy, as I had to build something long lasting (family) in order to really see that I can do it and it can be beautiful, but also to give myself permission to not stay in other situations when my time is up. ENFP’s aren’t meant to be tied down where more like boats who need an anchor we must be able to move around and do what we have to do but if we don’t have that anchor, life will surely be more chaotic.
ENFP men specifically, I feel the reason we are so rare is not because we don’t exist, but society has turned us into something else. And I think that’s on purpose because if they saw strong men who are simultaneously empathetic and loving who don’t think violence is the answer to anything… who saw the value in women as equals in all aspects of building together… they would lose their collective minds, and that’s why they try so hard to push this alpha bro manosphere garbage on our young boys and men.
Honestly, all of the Myers-Briggs types when fully healthy have their special way that they’re supposed to contribute to the whole.
All right, that’s pretty much it. Keep shining that light ENFPs the world needs it now more than ever