u/abbeyshungover

Should I? We have been dating for three years and I've been open and frank with him about my past trauma, depression, anxiety, etc. He knows I have ADHD - which I use as an umbrella term to describe my experience - but when I'm splitting I know it is confusing for him. I haven't told him because I'm scared he will abandon me since it is such a stigmatized disorder. He knows I have been in and out of treatment centers before I met him but he doesn't know I went to places that specifically treat BPD patients (shout out McLean Hospital lol). Thoughts?