u/_lunaeatstuna_
I (17 M) currently dating (16 F) for a couple of weeks. Our situationship was pretty cute. We used to cuddle a lot, hold hands, talk sweetly and allat. this stage lasted for around 2 and half months. Before this stage began, she brings up a topic about how lip kisses are so ew. I asked if she had experienced it before and she straight away denies it. Moreover, I hadn't kissed anyone yet. 2 months later she herself admits that she did madeout with her ex and it was an awful experience ( me and her weren't dating). The fact that she lied bothered a lot rather than making out. She herself made me insecure regarding kisses and all. I was ready to let go ts as it wasn't that much of a big deal.
Around 10 days earlier, she tells me to drop off the joking/funny personality and be a lil flirty. As we were flirting, I had really cute thoughts about me and her smooching in a rainy weather. I told her "bhot wild thoughts aate yr flirt karte vakt". Even she was experiencing it, hence for around 2-3 hours we were convincing one another to tell about deez thoughts. I told her that "are we thinking about smooch?" and she denies it ;-; . She says "maine udhar tak nai socha" and i was like fcuk. I was not ready about smooch too but if she WANTS it, then I want it too. She tells that she is not ready yet and feels a lil insecure about it due to her past traumatic experience. After this, she says that she wants to sit on my lap and wanted me to rub her bare waist which i think is definitely wilder than a smooch.
Do ya'll think whether I should approach her for a smooch irl or I shall slow it down. I do have a slightest desire about smooch but I am okay to slow it down if she isn't ready. Will she ever initiate the smooch if she is ready?
u/_lunaeatstuna_ — 14 days ago
I (17 M) currently dating (16 F) for a couple of weeks. Our situationship was pretty cute. We used to cuddle a lot, hold hands, talk sweetly and allat. this stage lasted for around 2 and half months. Before this stage began, she brings up a topic about how lip kisses are so ew. I asked if she had experienced it before and she straight away denies it. Moreover, I hadn't kissed anyone yet. 2 months later she herself admits that she did madeout with her ex and it was an awful experience ( me and her weren't dating). The fact that she lied bothered a lot rather than making out. She herself made me insecure regarding kisses and all. I was ready to let go ts as it wasn't that much of a big deal.
Around 10 days earlier, she tells me to drop off the joking/funny personality and be a lil flirty. As we were flirting, I had really cute thoughts about me and her smooching in a rainy weather. I told her "bhot wild thoughts aate yr flirt karte vakt". Even she was experiencing it, hence for around 2-3 hours we were convincing one another to tell about deez thoughts. I told her that "are we thinking about smooch?" and she denies it ;-; . She says "maine udhar tak nai socha" and i was like fcuk. I was not ready about smooch too but if she WANTS it, then I want it too. She tells that she is not ready yet and feels a lil insecure about it due to her past traumatic experience. After this, she says that she wants to sit on my lap and wanted me to rub her bare waist which i think is definitely wilder than a smooch.
Do ya'll think whether I should approach her for a smooch irl or I shall slow it down. I do have a slightest desire about smooch but I am okay to slow it down if she isn't ready. Will she ever initiate the smooch if she is ready?
u/_lunaeatstuna_ — 14 days ago