My brother is very narrow minded - Very very very narrow minded
He got married 2 years ago and he’s very controlling of his wife yet he portrays that he loves her a lot . I get it that you can be possessive of your wife but there’s a thin line between being possessive and controlling, and he’s crossing that.
Yesterday my sister sent a photo of her and my bhabhi on our family whatsapp group( it includes only our parents, grandparents and us brothers and sisters no outsider) , he deleted that photo for everyone and scolded my sister for sending that photo in the group and it was a just a normal photo or my sister and bhabhi hugging each other nothing else.
On their first karwa chauth he gifted her a purse which was a nice effort but he didn’t even carry her pooja plate not even helped her with her dress while climbing the stairs , he called me for that I mean I have no issues with helping her but he should have atleast hold up the fucking plate .
My bhabhi wanted to learn video editing- he said no and guess why
just because then she’ll work under a “male boss” and she’ll have to talk to “other males”
I mean wtf
sometimes he even scolds me too saying that i should learn how to cook or else who’ll feed my husband after he will come back from his office