u/Ynneb82

I just discovered Aly & Fila sets and I'm loving them. But why are they listed as a duo when there is always only one playing?

Hello my first time at TL for me. I was wondering what kind of vibe I will find.

This is of course a generalisation of my experiences.

For example in Italy it's not the best for the EDM festivals, a lot of drunken bros, girls who stand still and only post on Instagram and age usually very low (compared to me).

US seems so performative with all the crazy outfits and especially the damn poles.

This year I attended the Amsterdam Dance Festival and was blown away at how the crowd is so much better. There are people of all ages, mostly friendly and especially dancing. It made the expensive so much better.

It's such a huge festival that there will probably be a mix, but I hope the nordic influence will be felt :)

Hello, I've just watched a video about dealing with the grief of the years lost due to being in the closet and I realised I have a lot to unpack.

I have been going to a psychologist since I decided to come out and I'm comfortable with her but she wasn't very helpful I must say ... I keep going even now that everything is so much better, just much much less (once three months).

I live in a small town and there are no therapists specialized in LGBT issues, even if they all have many lgbt patients.

I'm curious to try a therapist specialised in LGBT issues even if I have to go to a bigger city.

Do you have any experience with lgbt therapist? Are they really better than "generic" therapists?

Hello, late bloomer here, just to give context. Only second relationship.

I have been dating this guy for 3+ months, very cute and sweet but I didn't feel much for him, which sadly always happens to me. I decided to break up with him because it didn't seem right. Drove to him, made the prepared speech. At first he took it well, then he started breaking down. Hugging me, crying, blaming himself. I felt so bad and I didn't know what to say, but I wanted to fill the silence, so I said all the things that I didn't want to say: it's not you, it's me. I may be aromantic. I didn't want this to be about me, I said it to him also, but I really didn't know what to say. I feel like I spoke nonsense.

We talked, we hugged for a while and then I left. He was still on the couch holding back the tears.

I felt so awful. Because he cared for me while I didn't and because I never made someone else crying. I drove back home with my shirt smelling like him and crying. I'm so heartbroken that I'm second guessing my decision. I never felt like this,. But I hope it will turn out to be right, eventually.

My first break up was like a release and I felt free after (we are still great friends). I didn't expect to feel so bad this time, after only three months of dating.

I hate that I'm hurting myself and other people more than what is needed because I don't have the proper experience.

I don't even know why I wrote this. Just to vent probably.