How can I learn to love?
I’m 21M and life is going so so, honestly have had multiple chances to be in a relationship or give it a try at the least. But out of a mix of paranoia, not really feeling like I need one and honestly having goals that leave me without the time or resources for a woman i really don’t feel I need one tbh.
The only time I ever think “damn I want a gf” is when I’m horny but aside from dat tbh I see the whole thing as just a headache. Lately tho I’ve met a girl who fits a lot of the criteria for what I want in a woman and although I wouldn’t necessarily say I’m a catch myself I’m very selective.
To me there’s no point in having a girl if I’m not attracted to her or at the very least happy to be around her just to say I have one. But the point is, how do I learn to be open and vulnerable with this girl? And build a semblance of trust and connection you want in a partner?
I find it hard to love and trust a woman tbh. No I’m not gay or asexual, honestly I do enjoy being around her, but there’s parts of me dat stop me from wanting to “love” her tbh. Any advice?