u/Xenesthis_321

My wife and I are just starting this, with the agreement that we not see someone the other person knows. She specifically said she’d prefer that I see someone from my work (which is in another city). I did ask a coworker if she’d like to grab a drink sometime after work, and she said she would. I don’t really know if it’s like as a date or just friends, and just not sure how forward to be about it. Do you have any advice for “feeling things out” with another person? Do you tell them upfront that you’re non-monogamous or wait and see what kind of vibes you get? I just don’t want it to be weird…

I also haven’t dated anyone else in 7 years, so just out of practice in general.