u/Writer_of_the_North

I try to keep this as SFW and PG13 as possible: A very good friend keeps making jokes and signs about a little crush on me. While I always thought I am straight, I started fantasising about it.

It’s not like I have romantic feelings about him, but certainly a “friends” type of love. But the opportunity to test “fun” with another man in a safe environment is intriguing, the risk of me not interpreting these signs makes me worry.

To give you a better understanding: We were talking about toys and where they can go into and he wouldn’t stop making jokes about me being too tight anyway and that I am not brave enough to proof him wrong. I replied that he shouldn’t bet on it in the hope of him shutting up, but after some friends left my place he said to me that I can prove it to him next time.

Then he left. No more. What should I do? Should I “prove” it to him and see where the journey goes? Or should I ignore it?

Hey, as so often here, I have a question or need an advice: My former gf and I went through a lot of always talks and discussions (and first times) but after a while discovered not only that we are switches when it came to “play” with each other but also including experiences with the same gender.

So far, so good: Time came and our relationship broke away. But I somehow picked up my girlfriend a few years ago. She was/is the opposite of my former gf. Not so adventurous, not so open to new ideas in the bedroom. So we tried “playing” with me, but she just did it to do me a favour. Which is super adorable of her but not satisfying. And I don’t dare to think about talking with her about adding another person.

Now the problem. I think I missed the opportunity to explain her my sexual past at the beginning of our relationship years ago. To make things worse, I technically lied to her about ever trying anal play and bi experiences.

So, I can’t be the only one. Any advice?