u/WraithOnFire

me and my girl have been together for 11 months. recently weve been having lots of issues and she didnt wanna be together anymore because it was too much and she wanted to work on herself. and i tried to force it for a little bit until we compensated on a break. she was hanging out with her friend and got drunk and fought someone, lost her phone in the process and got arrested, only know this because her friend had to tell me. its been a entire day since ive heard from her and shes been staying at a friends house whom i dont know and i have access to all her socials so i know shes not ghosting me ect. come to find out one of my close friends cousin told them my gf and her friend were going to go on a 2 man with him and my gf backed out because he knew me. shes lied and hid things in the past but never to this degree and i dont know if i should just leave or if i can still fix this relationship and heal with her. what would u do in this situation..? shes literally the love of my life and i hate to see our relationship come to this.