Looking for a good online platform for meeting individuals and groups in the lifestyle
Hello everyone, first time posting here.
I've been in the lifestyle as a bull since 2003 and over the years I've met some great people but life and work have kept me moving around so I haven't been able to really establish myself for the long haul in any community I've lived in, mostly lucking into lifestyle friends and playmates. Compounding that with the place I've been living in the longest, Las Vegas, being a very transient town and Covid back in 2020 causing people to shrink their social bubbles, I have been having an incredibly difficult time trying to find new LS friends.
I come to ask, after that unduly long exposition, What are some good online platforms for meeting people in the lifestyle? I've been on AFF in the past but their free membership is more restrictive than ever and I have an account on FetLife but I've turned it off for the time being as the site as a whole leaves a lot to be desired (especially in its search function).
Where can I look? I'm not discounting in person options entirely but as a single male some clubs have high to extortionate covers and my PTSD from military service can make icebreaker conversation in person challenging on my end (I was in intelligence so the bulk of that trauma is trust related).