u/Wide_Parsley7585

I had a big massive falling out with a friend nearly a week ago. We had our first falling out about a year and half ago after first becoming friends in about 2022 at work and since then we’ve had multiple falling outs. We argue a lot in WhatsApp never in person. The latest one feels final. I think it’s been dragging me down for a while now but I think I hung on in hoping it could be the same as it was.
But I felt like I sent a final message the other day and that was that. But I sent another one Saturday just politely saying thank you for something and then she replies with nothing relevant to that & the arguing starts again all evening. Nothing for 2 days and then a message Monday and then she starts it up again Tuesday morning.
It’s like I let go and then she pulls me back in. And I don’t know why or what to do anymore.

I had a big massive falling out with a friend nearly a week ago. We had our first falling out about a year and half ago after first becoming friends in about 2022 at work and since then we’ve had multiple falling outs. We argue a lot in WhatsApp never in person. The latest one feels final. I think it’s been dragging me down for a while now but I think I hung on in hoping it could be the same as it was.
But I felt like I sent a final message the other day and that was that. But I sent another one Saturday just politely saying thank you for something and then she replies with nothing relevant to that & the arguing starts again all evening. Nothing for 2 days and then a message Monday and then she starts it up again Tuesday morning.
It’s like I let go and then she pulls me back in. And I don’t know why or what to do anymore.

No matter what I ask it it keeps telling me to speak to a healthcare professional and gives me UK support numbers.

Will not answer even simple stuff. Or sometimes it has answered & then it’s disappeared instantly replaced with Sorry I can’t answer this right now or whatever it is.