I am 34F, 7.5 months pregnant with our first child. My husband works in a different city, which he joined less than a year ago. I also work, but will go on maternity leave soon in the next few days for 6 months. My parents and In-Laws do not have a relationship. They had a falling out during our marriage ceremony, because my in laws did not bother to inform us about anything they were arranging on their side, failed to give me anything, failed to write my parents name on the wedding card. My parents were also not fed at the reception, held at my in-laws, for which nobody bothered to apologise. Further, my mother in law is rather brusque and doesn't really know social niceties.
I live with my parents, and my husband stays with me when he comes to visit. He splits his time between me and his parents, which I have no issues with. Before the later part of the pregnancy, I also used to visit them once every once or two months, and tried to call them every once or two weeks. During my pregnancy, however, I thought they would be more present. I asked my husband about it , too, and it ended up in a fight. I even requested my MIL, saying it would feel really nice if we could have more frequent check-ins. I was really sick for the last few days, to the degree that my parents were terrified i would need to be admitted. The doctor was away, so that stressed my parents out more. My husband kept checking in with my parents, but I heard not a peep from my In-Laws. I feel really bad, but I don't want to fight with my husband on it. It feels my In Laws don't care if I live or die. I want to go no contact, but I'm worried my husband will also go no contact with my parents. Considering my parents are the ones providing emotional, physical and financial support (he's just bought a new flat in my city to avoid crowding after the baby's arrival), I don't think he should do that. What do I do in such a situation? How do I not care what my In Laws do and not let it affect my pregnancy and relationship with my husband?
Edit: Please forgive any typos, I'm on mobile.