Boyfriend always offers to pay but never actually does
Hi me F(21) and my bf (21) have been in a relationship for about 10 months and have known each other since middle school. He always had a crush on me and after many years I reciprocated and we are now happily together. He is extremely loving and caring, always wants to see me, is very kind and gentle with his words, always compliments me and seems to always put me first. The problem I have with him is that he always offers to pay for things but never actually does. For example I told him that I can't go out much this month since I'm a bit low on Budget (I study in uni, he works a full time job) and he said "I never said you have to pay for things, you just have to come with me and enjoy your meals" which is a very nice ting to say, but I always end up having to pay at least for myself if not for both. Last night I was with my friends and he was with his and told me he was coming to pick me up so we could be together. We went to have dinner and he told the cashier to put it all together but the guy didn't do he ended up only paying for his part. A friend told him "why didn't you pay for her" and he said "well I asked but he automatically splitted it" to which I said "you could have just put your phone next to the machine twice" . I didn't mean this in any offensive way but again, of you offer to pay for me and then don't it's a bit weird. After that he brought me to the bowling with his friends and although I didn't want to play, I did. He said "oh I'll pay for you" I said "are u sure and ok with that?" And he said "of course" but only pulled out of his wallet his part T_T . I was so confused, luckly I had money with me...again for the second time in the same day, after telling him multiple times I was short. He does this extremely often and by often I mean like 3 times a week. Last week he offered me sushi and it was 50 in total, but he didn't pay for the next 3 dinners which were like the double (100 €)and I felt a bit scammed since yes you want to look nice and generous but I have to pay it all back (and more) on the next occasion. What should I do? Should I tell him next time? Money is a very delicate topic for me, I tend to not discuss it and never ever go out if I know I can't afford it, but yesterday I didn't predict the bowling and dinner