u/West-Housing5799

Caught wife cheating

My wife started dressing nice mid week, reconnecting with her single friends and staying out late. While we were going through hard times and I wasn’t ed to fix our relationship, sometimes she would just say I can’t go out with you this weekend, I have plans. I offered her many times to divorce because we were incompatible but she always refused. I had a gut feeling one night she came home late tired got undressed and fell asleep right away. Her hair was a little messy and she smelled different. I went through her phone the next week when she fell asleep with it unlocked. And found out she was talking to multiple men. But this particular man who is an ex that she hadn’t seen in 2 years came back into her life and she had been sleeping with him. When I confronted her with the facts she tried to downplay it saying that he wants her and it only happened once but she doesn’t want him. When I can clearly see they slept several times together even on Valentine’s Day and he bought her flowers and she wore lingeries which she did a photoshoot and posted on instagram. I can clearly see she in love with him and chasing him and even bring him into her circle of friends. Now that I decided to leave when I went to pick up my clothes she started an argument and said we’re married and it’s not a big deal we will get over it. She refused to let me get my clothes. So I decided to leave and that’s when she tried to get in front of the car so I swerved left and got stuck on the side walk. She came and tore my side view mirror and smashed my windshield repeatedly. The police came which I called and they didn’t do nothing. The next day she came to my job and gave me 4 flats. And next thing you know a couple days later I’ve been served a temporary protective order and she lies about me running over her foot pulling out a knife and punching her in the face. I already got a lawyer and all the evidence that she’s lying and she is the aggressor. But in the meanwhile I going through darkness while she’s on social media partying having a good life and already showing up with her new partner. The divorce paper I filed is on the way and I’m so stress that the judge might believe her because she’s so manipulative.

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u/West-Housing5799 — 11 hours ago