I have observed this in pakstani guys that they will talk about finances and all and being careful on spending but will instantly wire money when they see a 19F post
Like, some will talk about that if their wives are working they should have joint accs or make joint financial decisions.
Or when wives are not working, how many will talk about wives in degrading manner, that I give her monthly spending money, but I started from a smaller about so she will learn to spend - like ridiculing a grown up human's mental abilities, same men come online and cry about not getting treated well at work l, not paid well but treat wives like this.
Even those who aren't looking down, they have reluctance in giving her spending money. There was a chawwani counter guy here who said I earn 10 lacs or something but when my wife will go out shopping, I will give her my credit card but will get notified at 10k Rs purchase and she will have to explain what she has spent on.
Imagine, 10k rs pay interrogating your wife. Why even marry, punch a hole in credit card and start f king it
What I have seen that if wife is employed men talk about financial decisions to be joint, and when they aren't working they don't even give much respect to wives ror their non working status, count the pennies paid to her, much less consulting her in financial decisions.
BUTTTTT same men who would say I give less amount to wife or a calculated sum so she will learn financial literacy, And what I am gonna talk about now is what I HAVE SEEEN THIS HAPPEN and I have held back on talking abt it for a very loong time - same men will see a 19F need financial help for studies post in main pakistan sub or other subs and will jump in to send her money without much ado.
Aik nahi 50s of guys would be writing, send me details if verified I will pay, like when I was new on pak reddit I saw a similar 19F need help for challan post on main pakistan sub and God I was shocked at comments. The payasapan of married men.
Lets rem one thing, 99pc ppl who ask money in pak subeddits are frauds, myself busted 2 such accs, but that's not the point, acc is authentic or not, same men who would think eons to shell out money over their kids, over their wives of several years will prolly get some instant errection seeing an 18F need help post and wohi aadmi jo biwi kay naak say paisay nikalwaey ga denay ki bajaey, WITHOUT EVER consulting or sharing with his wife will start wiring money.
Now if some wife will do it using her money if she is working or from the money her husband gives her, to some guy, men will alll go bent out of shape over sending it a na mehram without asking husband.
Don't be such beyghairats, even if online you want to support some girl, DO TELL your wife. Waisay same guys will plaster all over marriage is a team, but only till they have to send money to some female accs because on that place they won't remember ever telling their wife about this decision.