u/Weird-Cartographer68

Bro I genuinely don’t understand what people even want in relationships anymore.

I was with this girl for a year, and in the beginning she was all about long-term and serious stuff. Then slowly everything changed—she started getting toxic, like proper verbal and even physical stuff.

When I finally called it out, instead of fixing anything she just said she wants a “hoe phase” and broke up. But at the same time she’s like she still wants me around casually while she explores other people.

And the most messed up part—she still says she loves me.

Like how does that even make sense? You love me but you wanna go be with other people and keep me as an option?

Now she’s on dating apps too. First she said she’d delete them, then after going to Delhi she’s like no I wanna use them.

This whole thing is just messing with my head. The mixed signals, the back and forth… it’s actually draining me. I don’t even know what to think or what I’m supposed to do anymore.

Just to add on I met her yesterday when she told me we’re breaking up and all these statements alongside with she was calling me nick names and then acting sudden cold while leaving

Thank you guys for reading

I just want to understand something honestly—what do people even want in a relationship these days?

I was with this girl for about a year. In the beginning, she said she wanted something serious and long-term. But over time, her behavior completely changed. She became really toxic—both verbally and even physically at times.

When I tried to talk to her about it and understand what was going on, she ended up breaking up with me saying she wants a “hoe phase.” At the same time, she said she still wants me around casually while she explores other people.

What confuses me the most is that she also says she still loves me. I don’t understand how both things can exist together—wanting to be with other people but also saying you love someone.

Recently, she even got on dating apps. At first, she said she’d delete them, but after going to Delhi to meet a friend, she changed her mind and said she wants to keep using them.

All of this is honestly really draining me. The mixed signals, the back and forth—I just don’t know what to make of it anymore or what I’m supposed to do.

Just to add on I met her yesterday when she told me we’re breaking up and all these statements alongside with she was calling me nick names and then acting sudden cold while leaving

I’m attaching one photo of physical abuse

Thank you guys for reading

M28 and F26 Need some advice or help pertaining to breakup or whatever

M28 and F25 Relationship advice maybe