u/Weary_Letterhead2607

I (17F) can't find original gift ideas for my bf (18M) of 2 years and it's driving me insane

I have been dating my bf for nearly two years, but one of the main issues in our relationship is that I have never learned to get to know people.

Like, I always had friends that I knew since I was little, so I didn't need to get to know them because we grew up together; and when making new friends I guess I am not really interested in ACTUALLY getting to know them, or, as I said, I don't know how to do it.

And unfortunately it shows in my love life. I realized that, when I want to make a gift for my boyfriend, I can't think of an original idea. It's always something that he has mentioned before, or a "regular" gift like flowers or food, even though I know his interests. It's making me really sad because I feel like I can't make a proper surprise for him.

Do you guys have any advice on how I could get to know him more, and/or what kind of gifts I could give him?

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u/Weary_Letterhead2607 — 2 hours ago