u/WeakKiwifruit

Kids are beginning to wonder when dad will deal with it. Dad says he was unaware I wanted him to deal with it and told him not to. No. I told him I don’t trust he won’t make a disgusting mess, contaminating everything nearby because he has no fucking common sense. Told him there was no way I’m cleaning it (on the very first day too).

It’s so gross and unattractive like he wonders why I don’t want to have sex with him like ever. Not only is the sex bad, he is gross, weaponizes incompetence. I’m no psychologist but I’m sure he is a covert narcissist type. Why would I get all revved up over someone like this?

He also uses weaponized incompetence when it comes to the laundry too. Or he’ll just outright ignore my suggestions for hang drying. I literally had to tell him to stop doing laundry except his own or the bath towels if he really wants to.

Part of the stupid laundry thing is that he gets to go off in a different room and sort socks while I’m getting screamed at by a cat as well

My husband and both my kids apparently don’t even look at or see me, I cut my hair today and it’s much shorter than it was this morning and nobody has said a word about it. It was like… boob length or a bit longer and now it’s shoulder length and like… do I even exist?

I don’t even care about receiving compliments or anything, i don’t expect compliments, I mean I cut it myself so it’s not some a-level hairstyle but it’s fine, I’ve been cutting my own hair for years.

But they just all didn’t even notice that my hair is drastically shorter than it was just earlier today. Feels bad.

That is all.