Is my Marriage doomed already?
35M, married 3 months ago. Somewhere between love and arranged I guess. Currently living in different towns because of my job and her studies. She has an exam coming up, but it's 3 months away. We are in the same field.
Thing is, she's not a very "relationship " person. She has almost no sense of emotional intimacy. And she almost never texts. So our only mode of communication is phone calls. Once a day in the evening. Barely 5-8 mins. Then it's Goodnight. She's overwhelmed by her exams. Sort of a studious girl I guess.
So all this is causing me a lot of stress and worry obviously because this is supposed to be our best time together right? But she makes no effort to reach out and communicate. She goes to work. Comes back, studies, goes to sleep. A few days she'll text that she's too tired and has to go to sleep. She keeps saying this is temporary, she's always stressed out before exams etc.
To be honest, I resent her at the moment. And I think I've made a huge mistake in marrying this girl. And I keep thinking if this is going to be the rest of my life. Craving emotional and physical intimacy which will be behind a wall of tiredness and petty excuses.
I'm not trying to just get out of this marriage. Please, I need some genuine guidance from people of the sub. Am I overreacting? Is marriage like this? Do wives just, give up after marriage?