u/Vegetable_Lie_4717

I have an issue. I just can’t let people go. I can’t block anyone and obsess over them returning if they stop talking to me. This problem is just with the romantic partners not with anyone else.

So it happened in the past to the people I have dated but recently I went out with someone. After the meeting I was sure it was not going to work out. I kind of mentioned that infront of him aswell and then the next day he came to convince me and I said yes. Somehow I found out something about him in the next 24 hours and I called it off. So we were just in contact for a week. And I didnt even want to be with him but ever since he left I am obsessing over the what if scenarios. I am obsessing over him returning. I dont know what is wrong with me.