u/Vegetable_Fee2036

My MIL has 2 houses in different states. When finding out my due date she said she will be coming home earlier that month this way she is here to help with the baby. I didn’t ask for this. I didn’t have her help with my first child. This feels very invasive for me. My husband is not even close to her. I’m the one she contacts because he never answers. I don’t like the fact that someone will be around when I’m feeling like shit. I want to enjoy my first few weeks without someone sitting here watching. Visiting is fine. But the way she made it seem was she was going to come by everyday. How do you politely tell your MIL that you don’t want their help?