Loss of baby at 20 weeks what do I do?
Hi, for context I (27f) am pregnant currently 22 weeks 3 days. My sister (23 f ) also pregnant 32 weeks 4 days and my SIL (f26) was pregnant 20 weeks 5 days… this is important because we are VERY CLOSE in due dates AND this is my twin brothers and his wife. Also important because it was special to the three of us we were all pregnant at the same time.
long story short, my baby shower is Saturday April 11th , my SIL lost her baby Easter Sunday (yesterday as I’m writing this) so this is very fresh. Baby was lost due to complications and preterm labor. I was wondering if anyone had any idea what I can do special for them the day of my baby shower and NO I do not expect them to come. If they want to they can but I 100% understand they’re grieving. I just need ideas to know what would be good ideas to make this time a little more bearable for them. I can take up money, do gifts, cards, anything really but I just want it to be extra special. For additional context, she fortunately has pretty good insurance so her hospital stay was covered, the cremation was covered by the hospital, and the urn will be covered not only by me but my entire family is chipping in, financially there are no known issues.
Throw me some ideas please what do I do?