u/UnluckyPause4588

I have been the primary parent of our 10 year old for 10 years. Her father has seen her 9 times in 2 years with no over nights. He now met a girl, got her pregnant and moved her in quickly. He then suddenly wanted more custody. I’m not agreeing to that as he has never been involved in her life on a consistent basis. The judge gave him 3 hours a week to visit with her. He has had 2, and we have already went back and forth because he wants to introduce his girlfriend already on the second visit. Now, I know I can’t control what he does but I am worried about it destabilizing her. He says he wants her to bond with his girlfriend and he does not even have a real bond with his daughter.

How can I handle this situation?