Great to see sub for people my age! Nepal social is shitty yeta alik filtered crowd recha. As I grew older I think I lost touch with most friends, not that I have many to begin with anyway but weirdly enough i guess its important to have a sense of community ani though its online and anonymous some stuff helps recha.
Turned 30 recently and its just been shit. Dealing with one shit after another but hanging in here. Herum kasto huncha future and what life has in store for me.
Found out today from my mom that my 70 years old dad had inappropriately touched our maid who has been working here for 5/6 months and who is 25. I feel extremely bad about this and I am not sure how to process this.The maid told her about this after they were in a conversation recently, this incident had happened about 5 months back and never repeated. I have asked my mom to let go on the maid as I do not think it is safe for her to work at my house any longer.
She has agreed to it. About dad, I have heard such rumours from my cousins of him touching them inappropriately as well this was some 6,7 years ago but now that this has come out this way from my mom I feel really shitty.
I am 29 almost 30 myself and hearing these things just makes me wanna puke. I am just disgusted. Mom was so scared about this, I asked to divorce his ass and she keeps saying she cannot live without him and will die if something happens. She doesn't even wants me to confront him about it. Even right now I think I shouldn't because I don't want to bitch slap him or beat him up or worse him dying on me as he has all the health conditions you can think of.
I need to sort this thing out without doing too much damage but mentally I feel really bad I just feel bad about myself that I am his son. I don't really have anyone to tell this so putting it down here. How do I deal with his chat?
I’ve been working as an SDR since 2023. Within three months, I knew this wasn’t what I wanted to do, but I was in a difficult financial situation and really needed the money, so I continued. Surprisingly, despite the constant crying, anxiety, and complaining, I was still able to perform well and even got promoted. I recently switched companies and moved to a better one. Yet every day, I still have to convince myself not to quit. It’s not the people; it’s the work itself. The reason I haven’t quit yet is that I don’t know what else to do. Thinking about it feels overwhelming, so I try not to think too deeply about it. But that hasn’t helped. I’ve been living with constant stress for months, and it only seems to be getting worse. Any advice on how to get out of this?
Its started to rain but its been raining on my head since last 2 years and last 5 months being the worse. Living life in survival mode is the worse. You are in constant edge and you dont really know how to get it of it because its been so long you been that way. Deep down you just know nothing and no one can help you because you had been that way since many years now. Since you were 14 to be precise. You live a normal life on the outside, go to work, talk to friends and family and act normal but every other day you feel lost, trapped, unhappy and just no control over your own mind , thoughts and life. You feel all the good things ever happened to you was stroke of luck and you never actually achieved anything and you dont see much to be proud of yourself either. You had been trying but lately you see your self slowly giving up.. you dont really have any one to talk to about this because you wear a mask and no one wants to tlak to the fucked up unhappy person behind it so you write it down on the void of internet just letting yourself sillently suffer and wait for your candle to burn out.