u/Unhappy-Tumbleweed48

She was the best thing that happened to you, and you confirmed that many times. Months have passed, yet you still keep watching her stories without interacting, even though you’re not on her followers list anymore.

Do you regret it? Do you realize what you lost? What’s going on in your head? Are you planning to come back?

Please don’t tell me I shouldn’t think about this or that it doesn’t matter—I already know all of that. But I also know what we had just two months ago, and I know it won’t be like that again.

I’m the dumpee f27, and I know I shouldn’t care, but I genuinely want to know what goes through your minds when you do that. You already made your choice—you left. So why the hell are you checking my page after I removed you as a follower and unfollowed you? He kept saying I was perfect in every way....

(He's 28)

Could that be a sign he might reach out?

I know I may sound stupid for even wanting to know, and I know I shouldn’t care. But the truth is, I do. I really want him to text me.

The breakup happened because of retroactive jealousy. On the last day, he said I hadn’t done anything wrong—it was all in his head, and he tried but couldn’t make it work.

We saw each other about a month and a half later on the street. I was nice to him, he was smiling too, and then we went our separate ways.

It’s been almost two months of no contact, and I really just want to understand the psychology behind this.

Our relationship lasted 4 months.

I’m the dumpee f27, and I know I shouldn’t care, but I genuinely want to know what goes through your minds when you do that. You already made your choice—you left. So why the hell are you checking my page after I removed you as a follower and unfollowed you?

(He's 28)

Could that be a sign he might reach out?

I know I may sound stupid for even wanting to know, and I know I shouldn’t care. But the truth is, I do. I really want him to text me.

The breakup happened because of RETROACTIVE JEALOUSY. On the last day, he said I hadn’t done anything wrong—it was all in his head, and he tried but couldn’t make it work.

We saw each other about a month and a half later on the street. I was nice to him, he was smiling too, and then we went our separate ways.

It’s been almost two months of no contact, and I really just want to understand the psychology behind this.

Our relationship lasted 4 months.