Am I overthinking?
Am I overthinking?
I (24F) met this really good-looking man (24M) earlier this year, and we hit it off after about two weeks. He’s kind and mature, but with time I’ve started feeling like he’s not really who I thought he was.
One thing is that he’s very shallow in conversation, and I absolutely love deep conversations, about everything, honestly. But because I liked him, I kind of brushed that aside.
Also, my love language is words of affirmation, and he’s really not good at that 😭. He says his is physical touch, but sometimes he even cringes when I touch him 🥲.
Anyway, recently he went on a trip out of town. We were communicating the whole time, then suddenly his phone went on Do Not Disturb and I couldn’t reach him for like 14 hours. The next time we talked, he said his phone had an issue and that he “didn’t want to be disturbed by anyone” 💀. I let it go.
Now over the weekend, he went out with his friends, and after Saturday evening, the next time he texted me was Sunday at 11pm just to say goodnight. After that, he didn’t talk to me again until yesterday at 9pm. The whole time his phone was on DND 😭.
I can’t help but think of so many reasons why someone would keep their phone on Do Not Disturb for that long. But whenever we talk, he acts all sweet and bubbly like nothing happened. He also tends to ignore issues we’re having and acts like everything is fine, and I hate that because I prefer talking things through before moving on.
Now I can’t stop thinking about the last three days.
Am I overthinking? Should I ask him about it or just ignore it?