u/TrainingGap2103

If you look at the history of parents (particularly in certain countries/regions in the world) preferring baby boys over baby girls, the dominant narrative that's circulated seems to be quite biased. Parents in those countries tend to prefer those baby boys because those baby boys are gonna make a mighty fine workhorse. They'll go out and face pressure to earn the lion's share of the family's income (to be used by the family ofc). They'll usually be the ones expected to do the most dangerous and physically taxing tasks. Women will work too but as someone who's done work outside and done domestic work, with all due respect, one tends to be a lot more harsh than the other.

I think this is ultimately a comment on how imposing gender expectations hurts everyone. It hurts the baby girls obviously and it hurts the boys/men because they'll carry so many of the toughest burdens and, for doing so, experience the pleasure of being called an oppressor or privileged asshole because he was pressured into filling a pre-assigned role that so often isn't exactly fun for him either.

I guess you see this reflected in proper horror movies too.

Think of how the villain or deranged one is almost exclusively a man and the innocent victim we root for is very often a woman. Many of the youtube short horror films are often even more on the nose with their misandry than that.

Note: before any smart alec says that not every short movie follows that trend, of course there's a level of variety. Nevertheless, this is definitely a recurring theme.

This is obviously not the case but if this were the case, how do you explain all the domestic violence in lesbian couples? Someone had to do something there at some point to start the violence.

Also very little justifies violence. Men have been burned alive by women for making a stupid joke or not being attentive and many women literally openly cheer for that shit. I don't know anybody who'd be okay with a man burning a woman alive because of words or any reason at all.