Weird interactions with non Black women who date Black men ……
So, I recently started working as a cashier at a higher-end grocery store that focuses on organic and specialty products. It’s definitely on the pricier side, and I’m still getting used to the environment.
I mostly try to have very little interactions with my coworkers , I try to do my job and go home. Work besties = drama for me almost every time. Anyways , one of my coworkers is an older Black guy…. Maybe mid 50’s Idk, idc.
So today , I’m on my register and this heavy set Asian woman comes up to my register and says “Baby you must be new” “I’m the manager for ___ department”. So I said oh okay nice to meet you…. Very cringed though because All I hear is blaccent, blaccent , blaccent being thrown at me. Then my coworker the Black guy comes up next to her and she’s all calling him husband every 3 seconds. “Husband you finna buy these cookies for me” husband this and husband that, mind you he said no because “ he always buys her cookies” . So embarrassing. Anyways, so one of the cookies rung up the wrong price . Then she states “That’s rung up wrong, that has the wrong barcode !” Which it did and I found the right price for it. I then followed up with a joke saying how expensive the store is and how I didn’t notice the price because everything is pricey. She’s immediately goes “Baby don’t say the store is price when customers are around “ yeah don’t do that “ while her husband is just looking. Like get a grip I’m new and didn’t know I couldn’t say certain things.
I think she was showing out and the whole interaction was weird asf. Idc your husband is black . I’m not throwing at you my bf is White or Asian. It’s unnecessary when other women use a blaccent just because they are with a Black guy. It’s very much so weird and classless. No one wants your man and it’s unnecessary husband or not. Anyways I just wanted to vent about these weird interactions I have with other women who date black guys.