Wife just served me divorce papers
Things between us have been rocky for years I debated filing for divorce for years but wanted to stay together for our kids 11 year old boy and 5 year old girl, we have been married for 11 years. She has been extremely distant and doing odd things around the house that made me expect things including taking all photographs throughout the house that had us in them together and the same on social media. When confronted it turned into a big argument and a few days later I was informed I would be receiving papers from a constable.
I make around 90-100k a year while she made 37k a year last year because she is part time in nursing school. She says she wants to keep things civil and won’t go after assets hard if she can get the house from me we bought 3 years ago that I have been making all the payments for entirely. In assets I have roughly 150k between my accounts which from what I have researched I heard they can get half of that.
I’m just wondering am I completely screwed in our situation? I see a lawyer on Friday which I’m hoping makes me feel somewhat better but from everything I researched it seems like I’m going to have to move back in with my parents and lose basically half of everything I have. Any thoughts or advice?