A friend of mine asked me a question: once, three years ago, he was sexually attracted to a stranger at the train station for about half an hour, and once he left, he thought about it for 20 minutes, and then she disappeared, and he never felt attracted again until after he had formed a romantic bond. Is this something that can happen to a demi?
Is it part of the demis to be able to experience sexual attraction only after having developed more than a friendship, even romantic feelings? I seem to have read that demes manage to have relationships even with friends without a romantic feeling, I personally despite the strong bonds I have with my friends every time I find myself feeling sexual attraction only for a person I am obviously in love with/love and until the relationship ends I do not feel attraction outside of the relationship. Hell, now that I think about it, it's also annoying, as every time I go through a breakup I have to work hard to break that bond and therefore also make the attraction disappear.
(If I said something too strange or illogical, I apologize. I don't want to insult anyone. My intent is to spread misinformation or similar.)