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Burner cus I feel ashamed talking about this on my main.
My girlfriend and I have sex semi regularly maybe 1-2 times a month. I have a fairly thin penis and use 52mm condoms with no lube. It tends to bunch up a bit and sometimes slip off a cm to where the end slightly dangles. One time I saw a small amount liquid sloshing around the shaft area and got worried if it would spill out and go in.
We are both young (legal) but cannot afford to get pregnant. Abortion is also out of the question as her parents would be able to find out.
Other forms of contraceptives like the pill and implants are also not an option due to personal preferences. Other than just using maybe a tighter condom and timing her period, is there anything else we can do? She has irregular periods so even timing that would be difficult.
If we seriously cannot afford pregnancy, should we just abstain until marriage?