She tried to ruin my birthday, in true JNMIL fashion
Short rant but sweet.
I have met JNMIL 4 times. She lives 1.5 hours away but makes no effort to see or talk to me, just DB.
As you saw in my last post, she’s obsessed with tracking and so not a person I’m comfortable giving my info to. Even if we had spent more than 8 hours together over the course of a few years.
Well she decided this year, she was going to get my email. She asked me for my email. DID NOT SAY IT WAS FOR MY BIRTHDAY. When I asked her why she needed it, she didn’t respond.
(Never mind the fact I barely know this woman and she creeps me out, I don’t know how she even knew it was my birthday.)
She then proceeded to text DB 5 times over the course of the week asking for my email. Escalating in pressure. He ignored her every time. Finally decided to insult me to him (behind my back) over text, calling me difficult and saying she needed to “get the secret service involved to get my email.”
DB was kind and asked me how to handle it. I told him this once I’d handle it, but from now on he needs to draw the line when JNMIL and JNFIL BOTH insult me. Here’s how the conversation went:
Me (in GC with DB and JN)
“I’m not comfortable sharing my email without knowing what it’s for. I asked you directly and didn’t get an answer. Please stop asking DB about it.”
HER: “I wanted to send you a surprise birthday card to wish you a happy birthday today. Did not realize it was going to be an issue. Hope you have a happy birthday today!!.🎂🎂🎂🎈🎈”
Me: “And why couldn’t you just say that instead of then going to DB and making degrading comments about me? All I’ve learned is I simply will never be good enough for you or his dad. Nasty comment after nasty comment about me no matter how nice I am to you guys. Oh well! Your loss. Thank you I’ll have a terrific birthday.”
I’m sure haters will say I was overly emotional bla bla. But god damn it felt good to finally tell her to fuck off! She has such a lowly character. Also imagine being 70 years old and being so jealous of/on a 27 year old girl. So embarrassing!!!!
TLDR; JNMIL degraded me behind my back during the days leading up to my birthday, I called her out, she acted fake nice and I cut that shit off real quick, she is obsessed with making everything about herself and regaining control.