Should I break up with my gf because she has another man’s name tattooed on her?
So, I been with this girl for about a year and half. She was married before and her husband died. They both had each other’s name tattooed on them while married.
Her husband has been deceased for about 3 years.
I told her we won’t have a future much longer if she doesn’t have the tattoo covered.
It’s on her chest and although during the winter it is mostly covered, during the summer when it’s hot and she wears tank tops or shirts with open chest area, it is shown.
I don’t want anyone asking her what it says and she says someone else’s name and they know that’s not me.
I believe most people would feel the same way.
If it will be a long term committed relationship then there should be sacrifices and accommodations made. Never mind thinking about spending the rest of my life with.
I’m not asking her to forget her past with the guy but I don’t want to be with someone that has another man’s name on them. Especially when it’s noticeable.
She has said she would but doesn’t have the money right now, she has kids and it doesn’t look like she will anytime in the near or far future either.
She also has said if I want it off so bad then I should pay for it.
That right there is a big red flag for me because I do a lot for her and her kids.
I feel like her saying that is like a slap in the face.
Am I over reacting or do I have a reasonable expectation?