u/Therealtanukii

To preface I've never had sex and today me and my boyfriend decided to give it a try. Ive never had anything up inside me before besides a tampon and his and my own fingers but it was never that deep. Another thing to note was that I was pretty wet and we were also using lube and when he entered, it felt fine at first and but he went in more and it just became painful. We tried again but it was still painful and I ended up bleeding so we didnt continue. To be honest he is a little bigger, but nothing crazy at all and he said Im kinda tight so I dont know if thats the only reason on bleeding. I just want to know if its normal and is there anything I can do to not bleed again, is it just something that takes time???