AITA for being upset that my husband recorded me in a vulnerable state?
Background: I don’t drink often, usually just at social events. We went to an event and had a great time and in the car afterwards I was crying because I was sad about the idea of getting older, and admittedly I was probably being over-emotional/dramatic.
My husband told me this morning that I can’t drink that much because it makes him uncomfortable when I’m like that, and I acknowledged him and said I would try to limit my drinks at events in the future. Later in the day (we had been normal after the conversation in the morning) he brought it up again and told me I need to watch a video he recorded of me to see what I was like. I feel really betrayed and uncomfortable, and told him that it makes me not feel safe around him. I was in a vulnerable state and felt comfortable around him but I don’t feel that way anymore. He keeps insisting there was nothing wrong with recording me so that I could see how I was (I wasn’t blackout, I remember everything). He did delete the video but he says I need to grow up and “do better.” I honestly feel like he just wanted to embarrass me further. Am I overreacting?