Did the discard end up with blame all on you?
Hi everyone, so I wanted to see if I was not alone in this discard situation. I (30M) and her (25f) - Everything was great and growing into a real relationship for 3 months. Suddenly after a few great weeks of growing into dating/dating and the “I like you a lots” and future talks, and a great weekend together in a matter of 2 days later without warning I was ambushed and emotionally whiplashed.
Basically she weaponized a lot of vulnerable things I trusted her with and used them against me for reasons not to be with me. They were things you’d be able to sit down and talk about others were just gaslighting, random, and honestly excuses. For example “we argue all the time” yet we never did…Couple topics were even things I said in deep convos about 1.5/2 months ago that weren’t even things significant enough to end a relationship nor were brought up again throughout it.
At the end, there wasn’t any real sympathy or empathy just someone trying to cut and run and putting it all on me. I didn’t even have time to think or discuss, and when I did get a chance to explain things in reassurance, it was like i ruined her plan… 3 days later ended ended because it was a “feeling” and nothing was ever explained or closure.
Is this normal or?