u/SwingDicksBoneChicks

My friend asked me to dog sit for her, and I told her I would think about it. This wasn’t going to be paid or anything, just something nice to do for her. She asked me if I wanted to hang out and while we hang she would show me her place and the dog so I could see what I would be doing.

While I was there, I noticed she had security cameras in the living room, bedroom, and other rooms. I asked if her if when I’m dog sitting, if the bedroom camera could be off because that’s where I would be changing after work and sleeping while I’m watching the dog. She told me no it would not be off. I told her I was uncomfortable with the bedroom camera only for those reasons and she asked me if I planned on taking something of hers and that’s why I wanted it off.

I told her if the camera would not be off, then I would not be comfortable dog sitting. It’s her right to have cameras in her house wherever and whenever she wants, but it’s also my right to decide I’m uncomfortable and not do it. I also told her no with plenty of time to find someone else (and she did). She got mad at me for saying no because of that and told everyone I was being rude for not watching her dog because she has cameras.

AITAH?

So this happened to my girlfriend a few days ago at a CVS. She was shopping for some Easter goodies, and an old woman approached her and goes “Hello?!” My gf, confused, responds “hello?…” Old lady asks where the magazines are and my gf, still confused, just asks “what?” The lady now yells “Oh my god! It’s not that hard, just tell me where they are, I don’t have all day!!” My gf just replies with “well you wasted more time because I don’t even work here.” The lady gives a half assed apology saying, “oh well, whatever, sorry. How would I know, you are literally wearing the uniform.” She was wearing a black Lululemon sweatsuit, definitely not a bright red CVS t shirt.

Imagine if she was an employee, though, and this is how she would’ve spoken to her?? I told her about this sub and she said I could share.