u/Sunshine11_22

Hi everyone,

I’ve been thinking a lot about this lately and wanted to get some advice.

My mom passed away from an aneurysm (cerebellum aneurysm) when she was 39, and it’s been on my mind more and more as I get older. I’m wondering if this is something that could be hereditary and if I might be at risk too.

Part of me wants to get checked just for peace of mind, but another part of me is worried about going down a rabbit hole and stressing over something that might never happen.

Has anyone here been in a similar situation?

Did you decide to get screened, or did you just move on without focusing too much on it?

I’d really appreciate hearing your experiences or any advice.

Thanks 🙏

Aaslema, ena mzlt ki khrajt mn relation à distance ili ml lowl dhohretli haja ma7leha alekhr w hasit feha des sentiments mezyenin ama m3a el wa9t el machekel bdet, bdet ki taya7tou yahki m3a tofla okhra ala 7ad 9oulou hia tkalem fih dagou rabi w kalmetou ki 9a3d yahki m3aya , b3dt alih ama rja3 hoa ba3d ochhra w yotleb f sme7 w y3awed w we3edni inou bsh ytbadel w effectivement tbadl, hata ki ritou zeyed bnet cv pas ala instagram mche na7ahom.

Ama bdet machekel mn chira okhra , bdet ki bde ymahtel w m yhbesh ya3ml haja sérieuse w y2ajel, w kol mara yhot haja priorité 3laya el mouhem m ykalamsh darna, w kol mara ysama3ni klem il me critique b façon yeser khayba ( surtt physiquement) , 3abd m tasma3ch menou kelma behya dima mahou 3ajbou chay w hata ki yshouf haja behya ykharej feha el khayb.

3abd la ydalel la ya9ra 7seb inou relation à distance tstha9 akthr effort bsh n7es b sécurité , w m3a el wa9t ki dhmani wala bered m3aya hata f les réponses wala 7ata ki netghachech.

El 7asel insen hedha zeda t3adit ena b période s3iba w psychiatre atatni des antidépresseurs ( partie kbira ml dépression ili 3echtha ken hoa sbab feha )ama ena m khdhithomsh w 9arat ne9ef l rouhi fl période heki w 9olt akid bsh ykounli support ama ili rytou insen kesa7 w m aambeloush bia , période hedhika watet l'anniversaire mteeou w ena khatrni kont f état khayb allah ghaleb mshe mn beli yekhi haz khachmou alaya f wa9t ena kont mst7a9a fih support ..

hedha kol bsh nhotkom fl contexte mtaa el relation il toxique ili waletha wa9teli ml lowl rsamli la vie en rose, rsamli ili hoa insen m famesh kifou w ken dima y9oli kn bsh teb3d alaya bsh tendem khatr maksh bsh tal9a insen yhebek kifi , el insen hedha ki yshoufni b3edt ça y est yarja3 haka haka bia w yseel w kol w ba3d yarja3 kil3ada, na3rf ili kolkom bsh t9oulouli karek ml lowl b3dt msh ndhaya3 3amin mn 3omri hakeka ..

n7eb n9olkom ili ena 7awelt ama hoa ken dima ykabech fia w ena khatrni nhbou narja3 , walah 7awelt ama 9albi y7ebou w m najamtsh, tawa habit nekhou el 9arar mara okhra w bsh na3fes ala 9albi w bsh neblokih( 9bal kont neblokih w nraj3ou ) aman kifeh na3mel rani walahi t3bt, nhb nfi9 sbeh nal9a rouhi m andi hata des sentiments lih , ena tawa aslan nhes f rouhi épuisée nhes f rouhi les sentiments kol atithomlou w ma3adsh najem je m'imagine m3a 3abd ekhr ghirou ..

walah hata sexuellement ki nkhamem feha manish mnajema nchouf rou7i m3a rajel ekhr, m andi hata envie bsh na7ki m3a hata rajel ekhr wala na3ref abd ekhr aman 3awnouni walahi t3bt ..