u/Sufficient-Owl1826

I need to get this off my chest because I can't tell my friend and it's killing me.

So a month ago my buddy flies to Europe for vacation and goes "hey man, can you keep the Demon at your place? Don't let her sit, take her out once in a while, keep the juices flowing." Cool. Sure. How hard can it be.

What he failed to mention is that this thing has been modded on top of the already insane factory 1025hp. I don't even know the exact number now and honestly I don't want to know. The car physically intimidates me every time I walk into the garage.

I've driven it exactly 3 times in a month. Dry days only. Drove it like someone's grandpa- smooth inputs, 40mph max, both hands on the wheel. Because the ONE time it was slightly damp outside I gave it a tiny bit of throttle pulling out of a parking lot and I swear the rear end just... suggested it was about to do something catastrophic. I backed off so fast.

So He's flying back next week but going directly home to Nashville - and I'm in Charlotte. That's about 400 miles. Can't come pick it up himself, work starts the morning after he lands. Classic.

Weighing my options:

1 Drive it there myself. Which... in theory fine, except what if it rains?

2 Ship it. Been looking at enclosed carrier obviously because I'm not putting his Demon on an open trailer, and honestly at this point I'm ready to just pay for it. Peace of mind has a price and I've found mine.

Any tips for how to drive this, or is shipping just the easier call here?

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