Mom went against dad’s orders for his daughter to go to school.
My husband told my 16 step daughter that she had to go to school when she asked to skip. Instead of going to school she drove to her mom’s home and asked her if she could skip. Mom told her yes knowing dad already said no. Then dad told her when she came home that night she would be grounded for 3 days so she didn’t come home and stayed with her mom. Yesterday she was supposed to come back to our home for her custody days and her dad told her she would start her 3 days being grounded today. So she didn’t come again. Now he is telling her it’s fine if she wants to stay with her mom that’s she old enough to decide where she wants to be but she can’t avoid his home because she has a consequence waiting here. He told her if she doesn’t come home today and fave her consequences then she can stay at moms but he will come get her car (in his name) for three days and mom will have to drive her to school and work and that will be her new consequence for not going to school when told. Mom is throwing a fit saying their daughter shouldn’t be punished because she allowed her to stay home. Dad doesn’t want the kids going to mom when he says no and he’s made that very clear in the past. What are y’all thoughts. Should dad let this go or should my step daughter receive a consequence for skipping school?