u/Stunning-Counter3149

Please give me advice 🔴

Please help me, I’m so confused. There’s this guy, and we both had a crush on each other for a long time. Eventually, we followed each other on social media, but there was no actual contact. Then break started, and neither of us made a move. However, he followed my friend—I felt okay about it, though, thinking it’s just typical social media stuff.

​Later, I started feeling like he might want my friend, even though he hasn't done anything toward her except liking her story once. But in real life? He can’t take his eyes off me. Whenever I’m gone all day and show up at the end of the shift, he looks at me as if he’d been searching for me. Sometimes, if he sees me wearing a certain color, he’ll disappear and come back halfway through the day having changed into the same color I’m wearing.

​Once, he suddenly came and sat with me and my group of friends to get to know us. The whole time, he was staring at me; he wouldn't take his eyes off me even when someone else spoke to him—he’d answer them while giving me a shy smile. He even asked about me once when I was off. But because he hasn’t made a formal move toward me or my friend, I got scared of getting hurt or finding out he actually wants her, so I started ignoring him and acting uninterested. After that, he started ignoring my presence sometimes, while the rest of the time he just stares at me with a look like he’s planning something in his head

Please help me, I feel lost. Sometimes I feel fine and just ignore how he acts, but other times I feel like there’s definitely something going on. I’m afraid of getting my feelings hurt. What should I do?

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u/Stunning-Counter3149 — 6 hours ago