What should my husband and I do
Long story but im going crazy over here what should i do
My husband (M33), I’m 34 F. My husband has a best friend that keeps wanting him to go back to the UK.
My husband traveled from the UK to Canada 8 years ago to be with me. Before he came to Canada, my husband friend said I hate you. I don’t like you bc you took him away from us. My husband was like the leader of three group until he fell in love with me and found me. He stopped going clubbing, drinking, going out.
Every day we would go on camera, sleep on cam. Every minute we are on the phone, mind h we live in diff time zones. My family would get so annoyed bc we do everything on cam together, sleep, eat, except bathroom breaks 😄.
So my husband friend said oh I hate you so much. I truly dont lkke you. U took my best friend away from me and bc of that even if I ever meet you one day I’m just gonna say hi for the benefits of him not you. Il never lkke you and I hope you wont ever forget that.
My husbsnd and everyone just laughed it off till I told my husband I dont like what hes saying to me. Its not my fault you stopped hanging with him. I started crying bc my husband friend said im nothing to him wich I could care less but the way he was saying rude stuff to me made me upset bc who says rude stuff to pple u dont even no.
Fast forward my 25 bday came. My bf now husband traveled to meet me one day before my bday. We meet.
My bf now husband is my first lover ever. I never been with any guy but him sexually or physically. Hes my first. When my husband was here in Canada he ask me if I wanna have sx with him. I said no not yet im not ready. He just kissed me and held my hand and said honey we been in a long distance relationship for 6 years. If I can wait that long I can wait another. So he did.
5 6 months I decided I was ready. We did it. Then his best friend would call my husband and say hey man when you coming back to the UK. He said im not and thags when his friend would constantly message and say bro come back to the UK. Canada nothing to you. She took you away from us this and that.
So my husband brushed it off and year later 2018 I became pregnant. Had my first child in 2019. Everyone of my husbsnd friends said congratulations but my husband best friend. Even when my husbsnd posted pictures and videos everyone went crazy liking are photos congratulations and everything but my husband best friend.
So my husband decided to let go of his best friend bc only time he wiuld call is when he would say come back to the UK. I miss you forget Canada forget the girl. Why did u have to move to Canada for this girl.
My husband said chill bc love makes a man do crazy things. I love her we been together since we were 18 19.
Till this day this guy still doesn't hit my husband up to say how are whats up. He only messaged him and tells him to leave Canada and go back.
We have 2 kids now born in 2023 and all he would say is when you coming back.
Why did u haft to leave. Oh dont message me till ur back in the UK. My husband said hes a very jelouse guy friendly but jelouse. I said maybe u shouldn't visit him say if hes kn to something should my husband block him or leave it alone and what would you have done.
My husband best friend is (M28). I'm already noticing red flags. How do I (F34) mom a wife adress this without getting into a argument. With my husband best friend or should we just block and let ot go
If your bf or husband friend kept constantly doing that saying why u leave for her or why u have to live here what would u have done