My feelings are definitely hurt
My sister-in-law is getting married, and for almost a year she had told me I would be one of her bridesmaids… but about a month ago she had mentioned that some of her fiance’s groomsmen might not be able to make it, so she might have to remove one or two bridesmaids, which included me. I understood and was okay with that! But we just found out that she actually added two new girls to the wedding party, so I was the only one removed. Since she mentioned removing me I’ve also been completely excluded from helping with the wedding, even though I had been involved in planning things like venues, colors, and decor. Now I’m no longer included at all… and I completely understand it’s her wedding but I feel a little upset? My husbands isn’t happy and suggested we don’t have to go, she also mentioned putting him and their siblings and mom alone at a table and he wasn’t a fan of that because we have our own family (two kids who she wants in the wedding) and he didn’t think it made sense for him to sit away from us. I genuinely don’t know if I should even be upset, I just needed to rant 🙃