I hate the idea that make-up is empowering. Its another result of choice femnism
Disclaimer: I’m not talking about all kinds of makeup. Makeup can be tradition, art, self-expression, or simply something fun. I’m talking specifically about the kind of beauty makeup many women feel pressured to wear daily in order to be seen as presentable, healthy, or attractive.
The article here is actually against my opinion, and this i why i wanted to write this here. Because i highly disagree with the common mindset that make up isnt the problem. Still i recommend reading it to get the other point of view.
I’m 21 and I’ve never worn makeup, but lately I’ve been feeling more and more pressure to start, especially for job interviews or social events. At the same time, I don’t want to, because I’ve seen what this pressure does to so many women around me.
Some of my friends won’t even leave the house without makeup because they feel too insecure. Some won’t let their partners see them without it. One friend wakes up earlier than her boyfriend every morning just to put makeup on before he sees her face naturally. Another friend went without makeup on a road trip once, and a guy who had known her for three years asked if she was sick, simply because he had never seen her real face before.
I once had a deep conversation with a woman who wears a hijab. She admitted that she personally believes makeup is a sin in her religion, yet she still feels unable to stop wearing it because she fears being judged. Think about that for a second: she feels less afraid of covering her hair than of showing her natural face.
That isn’t empowerment to me. That isn’t freedom, creativity, femininty or fun anymore. It becomes damaging when women feel anxious, ashamed, or socially punished for existing naturally.
We’ve normalized full-face makeup so much that many people, especially men, no longer know what an average woman actually looks like without cosmetic enhancement. Women who choose not to wear makeup are then labeled “tired,” “unprofessional,” “sick,” or “unpolished,” especially in professional settings.
And women are expected to spend extra time, money, and energy maintaining this standard, even though women already disproportionately carry care work and are more likely to face financial struggles.
What frustrates me most is how often this pressure gets reframed as empowerment simply because women are “choosing” it. "I just like it" well then why cant you leave the house without it? If it would just be a about fun and creativity women wouldnt feel pressured to wear it daily.
I dont only think that make up just isnt femnist but an anti-feminist choice which is damaging to all women.