Stealthing gets you into some weird situations
There's this dude I'm pretty sure is transphobic, or at the very least has more conservative views on the topic. Like one of those "you can do what you want and I'll call you what you want, but I have my own opinions" sort of people. Not directly my friend, but the other night I'm drinking with my actual mates and someone invites him.
Many drinks deep and this guy starts venting to me about how he has a high voice because I can relate. Called me 'camp' but he can 'tell its unintentional' and he felt like he had a similar thing going on. I found the whole situation very amusing. One of the most important skills you can have when you're stealth is being able to confidently talk about male puberty as if you experienced it, so I was able to nail this convo.
It does really make you realise how oblivious the average person is to the things that we worry endlessly about. You spend all this time worried about how your pitch is percieved, and never consider the men you surround yourself with have the exact same anxieties - only for different reasons.
Another good stealthing tale for you all- I'm in the town centre with my mom and there's some charity pop up stall in the middle of the pavement. Some prostrate cancer charity, graphics all about rates in young men and needing to get checked so of course this charity worker drags me into conversation with him. This dude is talking for agessss about me giving myself a prostrate exam until my mom says "you'll have no luck with this one" and fucking whisks me away 😭. Went back and donated cus I felt bad.
Anyone got any funny stories?