TMI Marital relations 🍆
I have been married for almost 16 years. We have a great s3x life….here it comes…BUT,
He wants me to talk to him during ‘relations’. I didn’t know this until well into our marriage. Basically, talk dirty to me. He is 65 and I am 56(F).
He had a problem with porn on and off in his life, which I think it is part of it. He needs more stimulation or visual/audio type thing since his brain has been infused with unrealistic activities. Just know I will do anything that doesn’t hurt mine or his back. 🤪🤣
He was an addict and had to get help etc. He had to have restrictions on his phone/computer (therapist suggested) so he wasn’t so blatantly tempted every moment of the day. He’s done really well, or he hides it very well.
All these years I can’t stand the talking thing. I do it as best I can. But, man, it is so not ‘me’. I am more of a quiet/dark room/whispers of love or even some music. He is in the middle of the day/chatty type. He has trouble performing in my scenario 50% of the time.
I know it bothers him. I try my best. I would rather him have his way so he can be successful because I still get all mine regardless, if you know what I mean.
Any advice besides-just give in and talk dirty?