My(24F) husband(31M) asked me to shut up while going through IVF
I was on my 5th day of IVF cycle yesterday. I was feeling really low and having really bad cramps. When my husband came back from office I told him. I had also called him when he was at work to tell him that I was having cramps. About after he came back from office he asked me how was I doing and then went to have dinner with my in laws. We live with his parents and sister. He was having dinner and chatting with them for like an hour after which when he came back to the room I told him that I needed him and he could have rushed his dinner today and sat with me to comfort me. As I only have him. None of his family members care for me. None of them have asked me how am I doing or taken care of me. I mostly make my own food or order online. When I complained that he should have rushed today and sat with me he got defensive and we didn’t speak and went to sleep.
Today we had to go for a scan. When I asked him if wants to accompany me or not he said that I could go by myself. And after 5 mins he texted that he will tag along. In the car I tried talking to him and told him that I had asked for only 10days of him caring for me and keeping his ego aside. The argument turned a little heated and he asked me to shut up. Said that I was very difficult and that I am always on a roll about something or the other.
I take care of all our medications and all the appointments. He is paying for the ivf.
I feel really lonely. If for 10 days he can’t take care of me( check my medications, check what am I eating or not) how will he ever take care of me?
I feel so lonely and my hormones are making me feel crazy sad and depressed. What do I do?