Has anyone decided to leave and regretted it?
I (34 F) recently decided to break up with my fiance (35m) after 10 years because I believe he has a porn addiction that progressed to him arranging to meet a sex worker. (Full details in my previous post on /deadbedrooms) He still won’t admit to having an addiction and his reason for visiting the escort is because of his ED which I still don’t believe.
Apart from the lack of sex, we had a great relationship - he is very caring, we are always laughing and he’s my best friend. But he has deep issues and cant communicate, so problems spiral out of control.
We are currently still living together while we get the house ready to sell and everything is normal except we are not cuddling and sleeping in separate rooms. I know this is making things harder for me but I’m enjoying a bit of normality when my world has fallen apart.
I know leaving is the right decision but would love to hear some success stories if anyone else has been in the same position and found happiness without them. I’m terrified there are no good men left and I’ll never find love like this again.