Am I wrong for questioning my relationship?
I’m (F24) in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend (M23) and we’ve been together for a year and a half now. We live on opposite sides of the world. We both love each other so much and during special occasions like our monthsaries, birthdays, valentines, he always makes an effort to send me flowers and gifts. I honestly appreciate all of it and I know he’s doing all what he can just to make me happy.
The thing is after all this time we still haven’t met in person yet. His reason is usually work and his family also worries about him traveling to my country because they think it might not be safe. If I had the chance of course I would fly to his country ASAP but getting a visa here can take a really long time. Meanwhile he has more freedom to travel if he wants to but because of those reasons he can’t.
What’s making me overthink lately is seeing my cousin’s relationship. She’s also in an LDR and even though they haven’t been together that long her boyfriend already flew all the way to see her.
Seeing that makes me question my own relationship sometimes…I don’t know if it’s just peer pressure or if what I’m feeling is actually valid :(